Man Vs Woman

Once I wrote down a note that I've modified from The Ugly Truth script. This is my note.

Women (with a little modification)

Let me tell you something about women.

Women would have us believe that they are the victims; That we break their hearts for sport. That's crap. They say they want romance, they say they want true love, but all they want is a check list. Is he perfect? Is he handsome? Is he a doctor?


For you men who fit the criteria, don't kid yourselves. Cuz if they're not dating with you, they're dating with a carefully calculated set of venal choices. Money over substance, looks over soul, polished over principles. No gesture, no matter how real or romantic will ever compensate for a really impressive list of credentials.

Well lads, that's the ugly truth, a girl in heat for two guys will choose the one with the better resume.

source : The Ugly Truth

Now folks, I think I agree on this quote more than I previously believe about man and woman relationship. No way to over win a woman heart, the only way is win their lust on us. Every woman except your woman in your family, just looks at you on your money, your belonging on the future, on your "job that means something", on your charming handsome physical face or on your achievement history scrolls. There is no damn thing like heart on real relationship.

In my own experience, woman wants us on how religious we are, on what job we work, on our comedian side, on how we can meet their (pricey) needs, on what their friend says about us. They've never cared about how we feel, how we smile, how we work, or how we pray for their safety. Their love to us is lasted on how long we can give them something that can be measured like money or flowers or some flattery every time she wants.

If you chase out a woman and you have (many) competitors, better start to do a checklist, are you willing to compete with the walking checklists that try to win over your target? If someone says man based on logic and woman based on intuition, how woman can't look over our heart, choosing on the biggest love that man can give. Their intuition can only "feel" the richest, the most handsome one or the most successful job in future.

No gesture, no matter how real or romantic will ever compensate for a really impressive list of credentials.

If your spouse has the opposite character than above, believe me, either your spouse is an angel or she haven't shown you yet. So, until you hit some age in your life or you have stepped on several unworked relationship in your life, you would realize that you can have so many lousy relationships, before you figure out there's no such thing as a good one.

PS. we can be interchangable and no one ever give a damn notice about it.